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Not quite the same as selling yourself short on the dating market. 🙂Maybe the issue for Nay lies with a recurrent pattern in the date selection process.

In terms of age, if she is in her 20’s, men may still be in their wild oats season. One such wrong message is found when some women throw a couple of pics and have zero profile contents: “hey, I look great! ” or has nothing to write, or writes nothing of interest. Maybe her expectations are ill defined (I do read profiles where women specifically state seeking an LTR, and no interest for a ONS).

I have a degree from an Ivy level institution, am really kind and generally respectful to everyone. I think I have a great personality that matches my looks and am thinking of just deleting my profile since it’s making dating more uncomfortable and is extremely disappointing.

What can I do to show guys I’m girlfriend material and more than just a one night stand?

Just make sure that this is one of seven OTHER photos that show you in real life, dressed up for Halloween, attending your sister’s wedding, or hiking in Runyon Canyon.

Sex isn’t ALL that you are, but it should be a PIECE of who you are.

While some men play games out of fear of commitment or rejection, others may lack empathy or a desire for intimacy.

If the latter is true, you will probably want to consider severing ties with this man. Think about what made you vulnerable to a man who plays games.That being said, Nay (if that is her name) seems to fit a now common occurrence of possible self-worth assessment “inflation”.She may look fantastic, she may be a knock-out, she may be nice, sweet, fabulous and brilliant, but let others be the judge of that!The idea behind telling women not to post sexy, figure-flattering photos was to avoid attracting the “wrong” kind of guy. Which is why I no longer discourage attractive women with good bodies from hiding them. Since many readers tend to lose sight of nuance, Nay, I am certainly not encouraging you to go purchase boudoir photos, wearing a negligee, ass up on the bed, your finger parting your lips. You’re accentuating your strengths in an organic way.And I get it — on the internet, there are a LOT of “wrong” men who think nothing of writing the nastiest things from get-go. Show a photo of you and your best friend on the beach last summer.

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