Dating kinky

Trying to get their man to dominate them, or get their girlfriend to tie them up. When you love someone and love being with them, but know deep down that there is an important part of yourself that your partner just doesn’t understand, and never will. Made me wonder if I can push it aside, forget about it, grow out of it, bury it. And now of course I know that is ludicrous – in the same category as trying to “pray away the gay” – it’s just not possible.

So many relationships where ultimately they failed because the kinky person could not get their needs met. And of course the other thing I know now is that I wouldn’t want to de-kink myself, even if I could.

And since joining the kinky community, I have met hundreds of kinky people in LA and all over the world.After all, sometimes it takes a little while before someone opens up about things like this.It’s worth getting to know someone well enough to know for sure.Or you may have had a particular moment when your kink was awakened – perhaps with a partner introducing you to BDSM – which was akin to letting the genie out of the bottle (there’s no getting it back in there).My point is – people are either kinky or they are not.

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