Dating a wife
Ask him about his expectations for your relationship and what he expects from you.
Listen to him about what went wrong in his marriage and what he expects to be different the next time around.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
He is likely to be on a roller coaster of emotions and needs someone to listen to him.
You may have to wait longer to meet his children, family and friends.
Be willing to work on yourself if he needs something from you.
But be honest with him if you feel you cannot meet those expectations, especially if he expresses that he has no desire to ever marry again and that is a goal for you.